Celebrating the life of
Trilby Hewitt Duncan
October 02, 1921 - July 23, 2012
Trilby Hewitt Duncan
SAVANNAH – Trilby Hewitt Duncan passed away peacefully at The Oaks Health Center on Monday, July 23, 2012. Trilby was born in Columbus, GA, on October 2, 1921, to Macon and Mayflower Gray Hewitt. She was raised in Forest City, NC, and, while attending kindergarten, met her future husband, Max Duncan. Trilby attended public schools in Forest City and graduated from Duke University in 1941 with a degree in History. Shortly thereafter, she became manager of her father's leather roller covering business and operated a much-needed war materials plant until late 1943.
On December 14, 1943, she married Navy Lieutenant Max Duncan and started a life of 30 years as an active duty Navy wife. She moved some 31 times and made homes in Panama, Arlington, VA, New London, CT, Newport, RI, Norfolk, VA, Key West, FL, Annapolis, MD, Pearl Harbor, HI, Charleston, SC, and finally settled in Annapolis, MD. She devoted many hours of service to the Navy Relief Society, Meals-on-Wheels, and Navy Submarine Wives Clubs. Trilby was an accomplished flower arranger, winning many Federated State Awards at flower shows. She also was an active participant in the Sogetsu School of Ikebana International, the Japanese art of flower arranging.
When Max retired from the Navy in 1972, he and Trilby designed and built their home in Annapolis, MD, where they lived for the next 33 years. During that period, they traveled most of the world, with emphasis on Europe and Asia. In 2005, Trilby and Max moved to Savannah and live at The Marshes of Skidaway Island, a retirement community. During these years, they spent many wonderful vacation trips with the family in the mountains and on the beaches. In the past few years, during the Thanksgiving/Christmas seasons, they have made annual cruises to the Caribbean with all four generations of their family.
Survivors include her husband of 68 years, Captain Max C. Duncan USN Ret, her daughter, Trilby D. Tibby Llewellyn, her son-in-law, Jonathan F. Llewellyn, her two granddaughters, Cristy Llewellyn Lawrence and Catherine S. Llewellyn, Cristy's husband, Brian Lawrence, and two great grandchildren, Carson and Caroline Lawrence.
Her family members extend their heartfelt gratitude to the staff of the Oaks Health Center and especially to Pattie Murphy for her loving care and her devotion to Trilby.
A Memorial Service will be held at the Skidaway Island United Methodist Church on Friday, July 27, 2012, at 11:00 am with a reception to follow. Inurnment will be later in the summer in the Columbarium at the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, MD.
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n lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Skidaway Island United Methodist Church, 54 Diamond Causeway, Savannah, GA 31411, or the U.S. Naval Academy Foundation, 247 King George ST, Annapolis, MD 21402.
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We are so sorry to hear of your wifes passing. We will remember you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
- Robert & Carolyn Toms Tate, Forest City, NC
I am so sorry to hear of Trilby's passing. My heart and prayers go out to you, Max, and your beautiful family. She was a special, kind and caring person. I have so many wonderful memories of her - the ladies' trek across the States during WWII to rendezvous with their husbands is my fondest one. She was such an inspiration for me - I don't believe she realized the positive impression she left on me. God bless you all.
- Barbara Bove, Lady Lake, FL
Max & families, we are so sorry for your loss. I first met Tribly 1965 when I was assigned driver for Captain Duncan. We developed a friendship that has lasted over 45 years. I am so thankful that our paths crossed. You have a special place in our hearts & will always be remembered. Our love & prayers.
- Larry & Marie Wilts, Tuscaloosa, AL
Max and family, We know God has received Trilby with open arms after a life filled with adventure, accomplishments and the love of a supportive husband and adoring family. Our prayers are with you, Max, having lost your soul mate. She was a very special person. God bless you all at this difficult time.
- Carl and Mary Anne LaVO, Levittown, PA
Dear Max and Family - Your submarine family grieves with you as you send Trilby on her Eternal Patrol. Thanks for your friendship and support. Mickey Garverick, Executive Director Naval Submarine League
- Mickey Garverick, Annandale, VA
Dear Max, So sorry to her of your loss which is shared by all who knew Triby. With deepest sympathy, Ann F. Haffey Mrs. John J. Haffey
- Ann F. Haffey, Arlingon, VA
Dear Uncle Max, Tibby & family: We were so sorry to learn of Aunt Trilby's passing. While we all know she is now free of pain in the loving arms of the Lord, we also know she will be greatly missed by all, ESP you. I have so many wonderful memories of us growing up, my visits when I lived in DC & our more recent visits in Savannah. We are so glad the boys had an opportunity to get to know the wonderful lady Aunt Trilby was. I know she will be greatly missed by all of you, but we will miss her as well. So glad she passed peacefully. We will continue to pray for you all . Much love, David, Sherry & the boys
- David & Sherry Moss, , TN
Dear Max and family, I was saddened to hear the news of Tribly's passing! In the few years I have had the opportunity to help you with your travel needs, I knew I was dealing with a loving family and family that loved the Lord! That says a lot about people and the way they live their lives! Tribly and Max can certainly be proud of all they have accomplished in life! I am sure Tribly will be missed, but I hope you all find peace knowing that she is in the loving arms of our Lord and Savior! May your hearts be filled with joy when you reflect back on all the good times spent! I pray that God carries you through your times of sorrow and fills your hearts with joy; Tribly I am sure would want nothing more! If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. Always your friend, BJ Hines
- BJ Hines, Melbourne, FL
Max and family, Please accept my condolences for your loss. God Bless, John McCormick
- John McCormick, Severna Park, MD
Uncle Max, Tibby and family, Out thoughts and prayers are certainly with you at this time. We rejoice with you that Aunt Trilby is once again healthy and free of illness or pain and waiting for you in Heaven, but we grieve your earthly loss. We have many fond memories of our family visits. We pray the presence of the Holy Spirit and the Body of Christ would comfort and encourage you and give you strength during this time. We also pray our Lord and God would give you many loving and precious memories of wonderful times with family and friends. Our Love and God's Blessings, Pam and Jim
- Pam and Jim Fields, Signal Mountain, TN
My thoughts are with you and my deepest sympathy for your loss
- Sarah Tyson, Savannah, GA
You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Phyllis
- Paul and Phyllis Freirich, Silver Spring,, MD
Tibby, I am so sorry to hear the new about your mother’s passing. I never had the pleasure to meet your mother but if all the fine qualities you posses are just a part of what your Mom had then she was a very fine lady. I know you miss her terribly and will ask for her advice often. Your father, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. John F. Beazle, EA LCDR USN Ret
- John F. Beazle, Dalton, GA
Tibby and family, I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers during this difficult time. Lovingly, Connie Machoudy
- Connie Machoudy, Cumming, GA
Tibby, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. I know you have many wonderful memories that will comfort you. Love from, The Collins Family
- Kathleen Collins, EA, Savannah, GA
A life full of accomplishment wrapped around a loving family. Rest in Peace.
- Larry & Nancy Blair, Lilburn, GA
Tibby - your mother was such a special person. I consider it an honor for the period of time that I got to know her. My prayers are with you, your Dad and the rest of your family. Much love, Margie
- Margie, Guyton, GA
Dear Tibby & Capt Max, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mrs Duncan was a very special lady. As a Navy Brat, we didn't have one set of parents, we had TEN ! Thanks for sharing your mom with me ! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. Much Love -- See you Friday at the Service, Ce
- Cecelia Worley, Jacksonville, FL
We are so sorry to hear of your wifes passing. We will remember you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
- Robert & Carolyn Toms Tate, Forest City, NC
I am so sorry to hear of Trilby's passing. My heart and prayers go out to you, Max, and your beautiful family. She was a special, kind and caring person. I have so many wonderful memories of her - the ladies' trek across the States during WWII to rendezvous with their husbands is my fondest one. She was such an inspiration for me - I don't believe she realized the positive impression she left on me. God bless you all.
- Barbara Bove, Lady Lake, FL
Max & families, we are so sorry for your loss. I first met Tribly 1965 when I was assigned driver for Captain Duncan. We developed a friendship that has lasted over 45 years. I am so thankful that our paths crossed. You have a special place in our hearts & will always be remembered. Our love & prayers.
- Larry & Marie Wilts, Tuscaloosa, AL
Max and family, We know God has received Trilby with open arms after a life filled with adventure, accomplishments and the love of a supportive husband and adoring family. Our prayers are with you, Max, having lost your soul mate. She was a very special person. God bless you all at this difficult time.
- Carl and Mary Anne LaVO, Levittown, PA
Dear Max and Family - Your submarine family grieves with you as you send Trilby on her Eternal Patrol. Thanks for your friendship and support. Mickey Garverick, Executive Director Naval Submarine League
- Mickey Garverick, Annandale, VA
Dear Max, So sorry to her of your loss which is shared by all who knew Triby. With deepest sympathy, Ann F. Haffey Mrs. John J. Haffey
- Ann F. Haffey, Arlingon, VA
Dear Uncle Max, Tibby & family: We were so sorry to learn of Aunt Trilby's passing. While we all know she is now free of pain in the loving arms of the Lord, we also know she will be greatly missed by all, ESP you. I have so many wonderful memories of us growing up, my visits when I lived in DC & our more recent visits in Savannah. We are so glad the boys had an opportunity to get to know the wonderful lady Aunt Trilby was. I know she will be greatly missed by all of you, but we will miss her as well. So glad she passed peacefully. We will continue to pray for you all . Much love, David, Sherry & the boys
- David & Sherry Moss, , TN
Dear Max and family, I was saddened to hear the news of Tribly's passing! In the few years I have had the opportunity to help you with your travel needs, I knew I was dealing with a loving family and family that loved the Lord! That says a lot about people and the way they live their lives! Tribly and Max can certainly be proud of all they have accomplished in life! I am sure Tribly will be missed, but I hope you all find peace knowing that she is in the loving arms of our Lord and Savior! May your hearts be filled with joy when you reflect back on all the good times spent! I pray that God carries you through your times of sorrow and fills your hearts with joy; Tribly I am sure would want nothing more! If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. Always your friend, BJ Hines
- BJ Hines, Melbourne, FL
Max and family, Please accept my condolences for your loss. God Bless, John McCormick
- John McCormick, Severna Park, MD
Uncle Max, Tibby and family, Out thoughts and prayers are certainly with you at this time. We rejoice with you that Aunt Trilby is once again healthy and free of illness or pain and waiting for you in Heaven, but we grieve your earthly loss. We have many fond memories of our family visits. We pray the presence of the Holy Spirit and the Body of Christ would comfort and encourage you and give you strength during this time. We also pray our Lord and God would give you many loving and precious memories of wonderful times with family and friends. Our Love and God's Blessings, Pam and Jim
- Pam and Jim Fields, Signal Mountain, TN
My thoughts are with you and my deepest sympathy for your loss
- Sarah Tyson, Savannah, GA
You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Paul and Phyllis
- Paul and Phyllis Freirich, Silver Spring,, MD
Tibby, I am so sorry to hear the new about your mother’s passing. I never had the pleasure to meet your mother but if all the fine qualities you posses are just a part of what your Mom had then she was a very fine lady. I know you miss her terribly and will ask for her advice often. Your father, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. John F. Beazle, EA LCDR USN Ret
- John F. Beazle, Dalton, GA
Tibby and family, I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers during this difficult time. Lovingly, Connie Machoudy
- Connie Machoudy, Cumming, GA
Tibby, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. I know you have many wonderful memories that will comfort you. Love from, The Collins Family
- Kathleen Collins, EA, Savannah, GA
A life full of accomplishment wrapped around a loving family. Rest in Peace.
- Larry & Nancy Blair, Lilburn, GA
Tibby - your mother was such a special person. I consider it an honor for the period of time that I got to know her. My prayers are with you, your Dad and the rest of your family. Much love, Margie
- Margie, Guyton, GA
Dear Tibby & Capt Max, Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mrs Duncan was a very special lady. As a Navy Brat, we didn't have one set of parents, we had TEN ! Thanks for sharing your mom with me ! Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of sorrow. Much Love -- See you Friday at the Service, Ce
- Cecelia Worley, Jacksonville, FL
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